Look at that guy, what a showoff… Look at her, so much ego..
Look at that guy, what a dull face always, look at her, what over excitement. Comments
like these have become so generic these days that we have assimilated it as
routine but the more we think about it with open mind, the clearer we get in
our thoughts that these are so bad. Judging someone from your own perspective
and calling all names can be brutal to the person in context sometimes, leading
to hazardous reactions.
Looking at this there can be two things one can do, either
take these jibes seriously and crib and fight or just be yourself, the way you
are. Later seems so legit, no? You very well know what is good for you, what
will make you grow, make you happy in life and what will hinder your happiness.
So why to depend on someone’s frivolous comment to traverse your path.
JUST BE YOUR DAMN SELF! Cry, Laugh, Smile, Be Dull, Be
Joyous, Be Quiet, Be Loud, Be Alone, Be in Group. Wear the fanciest looking
dress you want or be in the rough look you are comfortable with. Buy the stuffs
you can afford with stretch or buy local stuffs. Dance like no one is watching,
eat as if there is going to be starvation from tomorrow. Travel to lovely places you want to as if Aliens are going to destroy those sooner than later. Don’t go behind people
who don’t understand you, go with your own self who knows you better than
anyone else. Go out or be in home, without being afraid for being judged as
boring.
Remember only one thing that “You are not answerable to anyone’s
perception about you”, you are only answerable to yourself. So, if you fail or
feel bad it is you who is responsible for it and no one else. If you attain success
and happiness, it is you who should get credit.
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